If they say it's a scam · RealityShow.com

“Is this a scam?”

1Acknowledge it

2Did you research us?

3How do you feel?

4Keep going, or end it

They say it. You stay calm.

✅ Keep going

✋ End it kindly

First, your head: It's a question, not a verdict.

Listen: first, your headAbout 29 seconds.

Don't take it personally and don't get defensive. Most people who ask have been burned before. You stay calm, you stay kind, and you follow the four steps.

People who are doing bad things accuse other people of doing bad things. People who are doing good things just do good things.Cyrus

Acknowledge it, ask for the screenshot

Listen: step 1About 21 seconds.

Agree that it would feel bad. Then ask to see what they saw.

Say it your wayOh man, that's a horrible feeling, thinking something might be a scam. If something came up that says that, can you take a screenshot and send it to me? We want to make sure that never shows up, because our intentions are good.

You are on their side of the problem. If there is something online, we want to see it and fix it.

Ask if they researched us

Listen: step 2About 16 seconds.

“Did you have time to research us before this call?”

Say it your wayDid you have time to look us up before we got on? Our site, the people we've built for, our Instagram?

If they did, ask what they found. If they didn't, send realityshow.com/go/14 so they can see real people and real sites while you talk.

Ask how they feel

Listen: step 3About 24 seconds.

“Based on what you've seen and heard so far, how do you feel?”

Say it your wayBased on what you've seen and what you've heard so far, how do you feel? Do you want to keep going, or do you want to end the call?

Give them the choice out loud. Then be quiet and let them answer.

Keep going, or end it

Listen: step 4About 30 seconds.

If they want to keep going, pick up where you left off. If not, end it kindly.

Say it your wayKeep going: “Great. So where we were…” End it: “No problem. I appreciate your time. Take care.”

If the accusations keep coming, get off the call. It is never worth it. Don't argue, don't prove, don't chase.

After the call

Write it on their card: what they said and how it ended.
If they sent a screenshot, send it to Cyrus in Messages so we can fix what is showing up.
Then take the next call like this one never happened.

🎯 The call in 13 steps 📲 The on-call link: realityshow.com/go/14 (real people we built for)